Thirty Something Stocking Stuffer Ideas, (The Most Valuable Objects, by Weight)

christmas stocking With toy giving, it’s sometimes about quality, but, especially for children, there is also the sheer joy of ripping open wrapping paper and diving through mounds of tissue.  So how can we create a feeling of abundance without loading up on a lot of junk?

For stocking stuffers, one idea is to stock up on some supplies — that way there are plenty of gifts to open, and practical needs are fulfilled:

for children, stockings can be stuffed with crayons, pencils, paper, paints — things you find your self buying throughout the year and that are fun and always good to have around.  Additional practical gifts:  stainless steel water bottle, winter hat (maybe homemade), little snack containers (put a few treats inside for the occasion).  Gifts from nature:  a small crystal, a carved stick, a pressed leaf, a plant, some seeds.  And of course, some small toys — a wooden top, marbles, a deck of cards, a little game, a book, and a chocolate Santa or two (if you and they indulge in that kind of thing on special days — a note about sugar:  We avoid it for the most part, but it isn’t forbidden — it is a treat for special days).

For adults:  toiletries of all kinds — shampoo, nice soap, shaving cream, a special lotion — I’m partial to Weleda, Dr. Hauschka, Jurlique (among others), office supplies — paper clips, stapler, printer paper, printer, stamps, ink cartridges, batteries, a flashlight, candles, chocolate (for me), coffee, tea, a local honey, a book, a bottle of wine.

Just for fun (and Time Labs Blog is fun), check out this graph from Time Labs Blog about the “Most Valuable Objects, by Weight.”

worldsmostexpensivearticlesbyweight

Stocking Stuffers:  Stamps, Wine, Ink Cartridges (To make the picture bigger, click on it).

And for adding lumps to the stockings of children and adults alike, I sometimes throw in some tangerines or clementines and apples and some nuts (and nutcrackers).

St. Nicholas Day (and Other Festivals this Time of Year)

As some one of Irish-Scottish-English-Dutch-German-Native American heritage, I will focus for a moment on the Dutch part:

The Dutch settlers brought the custom of celebrating St. Nicholas Day, (December 6th) to the new land.  Pictured as an elderly man, St. Nicolas is a symbol of wisdom and insight.

St. Nicholas is the last in a series of festivals that begin every autumn in some European traditions.  The first is comes in September: St. Michael slays the dragon, he is young, strong, mighty.  In November, there is St. Martin: the patron saint of beggars, he is compassionate, generous, selfless.  And then St. Nicholas, he is old and full of wisdom.

It’s nice to think of these three festivals together, these symbols of strength, compassion and wisdom.

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Toys, Toys, Toys

My children are excellent receivers of gifts (and it’s very nice to give to them).  Of course, they prefer a year round schedule of toy giving, but they also eagerly anticipate the holiday season and the rush of gifts and celebrations.  I always hope for an exuberant Christmas morning, while guarding against an excessive, consumer focused experience.  As with many things, in the choice of toys and gifts, simplicity is often the key.

Gold Star of David

christmas star

On a personal note, we are blended family with Christian and Jewish traditions that meld with each other nicely to create some wonderful and meaningful holiday traditions, the best of which is gathering our family and friends together to celebrate our love for each other.

A couple of thoughts about toys, gifts and creating an holiday experience for children:

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